Last updated: 31 October 2026

togetherable is a small, private app and forum for a group of friends who help each other keep their goals. It’s run by Brad, not a company. By using the app or the forum, you agree to these terms. They’re short on purpose.

Who can join

  • togetherable is invite-only. You need an invite from someone already in the group.
  • You must be at least 18 years old.
  • One account per person. Keep your forum password to yourself.

Be a good friend here

  • Be kind. Encourage people, don’t shame them, and never use someone’s missed days against them.
  • What members share stays in the group. Don’t screenshot, forward or repost someone’s goals, notes, photos or posts outside togetherable without their OK.
  • Don’t post anything illegal, hateful, sexual, or harassing, and don’t post spam or anything that belongs to someone else.
  • Don’t try to break, overload or get around how the app or forum works.

Your content

  • What you post or send is still yours.
  • You let togetherable store it and show it to your group, as long as you keep it here and as your sharing settings allow. The Privacy Policy explains what’s kept, for how long, and who sees it.
  • You can delete your own forum posts. You can also text forget everything or delete my account at any time.

Messages and costs

  • togetherable sends reminders and replies by SMS and WhatsApp. Your carrier’s normal message and data rates may apply.
  • Text STOP to stop all texts, or PAUSE to take a break.

Not medical advice

togetherable is a friendly nudge, not a coach, doctor or therapist. Use your own judgement about your goals. If you’re struggling or not safe, please contact local emergency services or a crisis line.

As it is

togetherable is a hobby project. It’s offered as it is, and it may have bugs, go down, or change. Brad isn’t responsible for losses that come from using it, as far as the law allows.

Ending things

  • You can leave at any time.
  • Brad may remove a post or an account that breaks these terms. He’ll tell you first where he reasonably can.

Changes

If these terms change, we’ll update this page and post about it on the forum. If you keep using togetherable after that, you agree to the new terms.

Questions

Message Brad on the forum or by text.